Church leaders try to force people into programs to achieve their own goals. They are so busy with their strategies that there is no place for mere relationships. Only if we love God passionately will we realize it is not about my goals, my ideas or my outcomes. We have to choose do we want to be like the Pharisees and their preoccupation with their systems or would we want to be like Jesus. The Pharisees were not bad people but they were religious devoted people who tried to serve God through systems rather than mere relationships.