Monday, April 26, 2010

What is the most important thing we ask of our Church members: Conform to our views OR Do you love God?

I truly enjoy the writings and conversations with Ron Martoia. He is asking the difficult questions about culture, social structures and church that makes us uncomfortable. In this article published on his blog http://www.velocityculture.com/uncategorized/beyond-socialized-mind-the-result-of-informing-for-conforming/ he is asking probing questions about what is really important to us. My personal opinion is that we are more earnestly seeking to protect the organisational viewpoints that seeking spiritual growth in ourselves as well as in those around us.

Human Development; Beyond Socialized Mind

APRIL 26, 2010
Human development can go further than the socialized mind. Informing people and getting them to fit in or conform to everything from doctrinal statements to more pious sounding “requirements” so they can be accepted and belong is the doorway in and in some cases goal

Parenthood during the first six years.

Calvin and Hobbes
Becoming a parent is a wonderful blessing. The first six years is designed to to help your realize that you are definitely not the most important person in the world. Maybe this is God’s way of teaching us the fruit of the spirit:
Galatians 5:22-24
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. 24 Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires.
Kids are so willing to help us crucify our sinful nature. When they are small they demand our attention and would not stop talking. We say to them over and over: Just keep

Die Argument vir God

Hierdie is ‘n interresante boek en in die huidige gesprek oor God is die ‘n wonderlike lees. As jy egter nie hou van Sosiale denkrame en kreatiewe vrae oor God nie, bly weg. Persoonlik is hierdie tipe boeke vir lekker want dit bied ‘n ander invalshoek met gesprekke met mense wat twyfel. Die artikel kry ek by Kletskerk
Samuel Pauw , 2010-04-16
Die gesprek oor God het in die eerste dekade van die 21e eeu meer intens as ooit geword. Dié wat die bestaan van God afwys, het dit al meer sonder skroom begin doen. Dikwels met argwaan en sarkasme. Een van die stemme wat orals gerespekteer word, is dié van die briljante denker en skrywer-teoloog Karen Amstrong. Haar jongste boek,The Case for God, What Religion Really Means, is een wat soekers nie kan laat verbygaan nie. Samuel Pauw gee 'n uiteensetting in die jongste Kerkbode.

Karen Armstrong was in haar jeug ʼn non, daarna het sy vir jare geen erg aan godsdiens gehad nie. Sy het hierna met ʼn omvattende studie van die drie monoteïsmes en Oosterse godsdienste begin. Vanuit dié wye verwysingsraamwerk het sy oorspronklike en verrassende insigte ontwikkel. Haar jongste boek,

Friday, April 23, 2010

Leaving Church

Leaving Church
by Barbara Brown Taylor (Author)
4.6 out of 5 stars See all reviews (88 customer reviews)

Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly
Starred Review. A widely acclaimed preacher, Taylor draws on her homiletical skills in this finely crafted memoir with a simple plot: an Episcopal priest exhausts her inner resources, first in an urban church and then in a small country parish; she changes jobs, struggles and finds renewal. Such a synopsis, however, does not do justice to Taylor's literary style in this rich evocation of her lifelong love affair with God.

An Altar in the World

An Altar in the World
by Barbara Brown Taylor (Author)
4.6 out of 5 stars

Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly
Starred Review. Author of an acclaimed memoir (Leaving Church) and a gifted preacher, Taylor is one of those rare people who truly can see the holy in everything. Since everyone should know such a person, those who don't can—no, must—read this book, with its friendly reminders of everyday sacred. Taylor's 12 chapters mine the potentially sacred meaning of simple daily activities and conditions, like walking, paying attention, saying no to work one Sabbath day each week. Hanging laundry is setting up a prayer flag, for God's sake. Since Taylor, an Episcopal priest, no longer pastors

Great Emergence

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By

Phyllis Tickle

Narrated by

Pam Ward

Regular Price:

$12.98

Publisher's Summary

Rooted in the observation that massive transitions in the church happen about every 500 years, Phyllis Tickle shows readers that we live in such a time right now.

She compares the Great Emergence to other "Greats" in the history of Christianity, including the Great Transformation (when God walked among us), the time of Gregory the Great, the Great Schism, and the Great Reformation.

Combining history, a look at the causes of social upheaval, and current events, The Great Emergence shows readers what the Great Emergence in church and culture is, how it came to be, and where it is going. Anyone who is interested in the future of the church in America, no matter what their personal affiliation, will find this book a fascinating exploration.




Transformational Architecture: Reshaping Our Lives as Narrative

Ron Martoia

Narrated by

James Adams

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$14.17

Publisher's Summary

Author Ron Martoia is one of today's keenest Christian observers and thinkers. And in his latest book, he explains why evangelism is more difficult now than ever before: postmodern society has lost its overarching stories. People today are disillusioned, disenfranchised, and less open to the biggest "story" of all: the message of God's redeeming grace.




Godly moments in a strange place (MMC2010)

My journey to MMC2010 was much more than I had expected.

Our journey started with anticipation, bikes loaded like a Hilux bakkie and grown men as excited as small boys. We left from Somerset-West, Western Cape to Greytown Natal on our round about journey of 3520km.



While riding through our beautiful country we were confronted with God’s majesty. From the Mountains of the beautiful Cape to the plains of the Karoo we saw God’s creativity, His grace and His greatness.

The most dangerous man…

Breda Ludik send this quote about the contemplative person:
"The most dangerous man in the world is the contemplative who is guided by nobody. He trusts his own visions. He obeys the attractions of an interior voice but will not listen to other men. He identifies the will of God with anything that makes him feel, within his own heart, a big, warm, sweet interior glow. The sweeter and the warmer the feeling is the more he is convinced of his own infallibility. And if the sheer force of his own self-confidence communicates itself to other people and gives them the impression that he is really a saint, such a man can wreck a whole city or a religious order or even a nation: and the world is covered with scars that have been left in its flesh by visionaries like these." - Thomas Merton



Awe about a world I have not made…

Breda Ludik wrote:
I am enjoying the autobibliography of GK Chesterton at present – “enjoying” being the operative word. In his introduction Randall Paine writes, “Chesterton never really got over the fact that God created the world, and he somehow pities the rest of us because we have. His writing is therapy for us in our handicap.”
This (and Chesterton’s musings on his own childhood) got met wondering: Why do we so effortlessly lose the amazement of a child at this incredable world we are born into. Maybe the answer is to be found in our inability to decenter – to see the world without ourselves as the center around which everything revolves. Chesterton says it beautifully in The Common Man: “All my mental doors open outwards into a world that I have not made…

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Pinkster 2010

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Dit is met groot verwagting en baie opgewondenheid waarmee ons as Familiebediening uitsien na Pinkster 2010. Ons het al in November begin voorberei, gebid gedink, gebid en wonderlike oomblikke saam met God beleef. In Oktober verlede jaar het die kerkraad die keuse gemaak dat een van die hoof fokusse hierdie jaar die tieners is. Dit beteken dan ook dat ons spesifiek op

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Cell phones the future

Guillaume Smit is one of the trendsetters when it comes to technology and church. If we don’t start using technology as a ministry and life tool we are going to miss out on a lot of blessings. The original article was published on he’s blog http://emergingbracken.blogspot.com/2010/04/your-cell-phone-is-your-future.html
YOUR CELL PHONE IS YOUR FUTURE
Posted by Guillaume Smit
During the last web2church seminar I conducted I made the remark that the future of the internet and social media ismobile. It turns out I was right. Read the original article HERE. It is written by Jolie O'Dell.

New Study Shows the Mobile Web Will Rule by 2015 [STATS]


In a dense, 87-page report,Morgan Stanleyanalysts have charted the most important online trends and predicted the future of the Internet. In addition to forecasting more online shopping and showing the geographical distribution of Internet users,

Politiek en ek is nie maats nie.

Kyk bietjie na die artikel wat Jaco Strydom in die beeld geskryf het. Dit is heel moontlik die laaste keer wat julle my iets sal hoor sê oor die politiek. Dit gaan egter nie so seer vir my oor die politiek nie, maar hoe ons toelaat dat ander mense ons maak soos hulle is.


Malema en ET: Munt-kante

2010-04-12 22:02


Mnr. Eugène Terre’Blanche, wat Vrydag begrawe is en Mnr. Julius Malema, leier van die ANC-jeugliga. Foto's: Theana Calitz en Khaya Ngwenya

Jaco Strydom
Mnr. Julius Malema, ANC-jeugligaleier, en mnr. Eugène Terre’Blanche se gene is eintlik baie dieselfde (behalwe dat Terre’- Blanche dood is) - miskien gaan hulle straf wees

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Life, death and just passing through. Part 2

Calvin and Hobbes
In my wildest dreams I didn’t expect the reaction I got on Part 1 of “Life, death and just passing through”. The emails, phone calls, comments and talks over Coffee convinced me that this is one of the subjects that we need to talk about. The problem is that we don’t!
In Part 1 I talked about my “not understanding”. Although I don’t understand, I do experience the love of God. I touched on the fact that death is a natural occurrence – we all die.
Tonight I want to share with you my experience of dying people and how difficult it is for us to let go. I want to illustrate this with a true story.
Two years ago
I had the privilege to be in invited to Somerset-East for a Sermon series. We were due for take off from Cape Town International Airport at 09:00. While we had been sitting in the aeroplane

Monday, April 5, 2010

Why I drink Coffe

DESCRIPTION: Noah pouring coffee from a gigantic coffee pot CAPTION: NOAH PREPARES FOR ANOTHER HUGE DAY
I try to make sure that everything I do have Biblical grounds. Therefore I am now joining million of Christians who will help the Bible to say whatever they want it to say.
For this to really work you have to imagine me in the pulpit with my Batman robe booming out every word. Sweating profusely, waving my

Life, death and just passing through. Part 1

I had to edit this article. One of the comments on this article that was placed on my blog, a story of parents who lost their child, need to be part of it. Please read their story at the end.

I believe in living life to the fullest! I also believe that life as we know it here on earth is not all there is.

Every time I visit an ICU I am reminded that life is short, some time’s life is brutally short! Small children slowly dying while their parents are crying and praying, young men and women who’s life’s ends in a tragedy. People in pain, calling out to God for miracles. I have witnessed
some of these miracles and I rejoiced! Often I had to sit with devastated family and friends when the child, partner, parent or friend they had prayed for died. I don’t try to give answers because I don’t understand. I cry with them, but more, I cry with God. More than ever, in these times I experience the love of God as intense, overwhelming and tender. Sometimes I experience the pain of a loving Father who wants to take us in His arms and hold as close, but who are pushed away with the demands that He has to heal, has to make everything whole again. In the painful normality of death here on earth God wants to be there with us, comfort us and share in our pain. Death is sure, at one stage in our life we are all going to die. Nobody leaves this life alive! We know this and yet when somebody we love are dying, we call on God for a miracle.
The wonderful thing is that we may call on God for a miracle, we can beg cry and even fight with God, as we would do with someone we love. Our responsibility is to be honest with God. To acknowledge what we see, to acknowledge our pain, longing and our desires. To acknowledge that we are at wits end. It is not our responsibility to believe somebody “healed”. Or pray somebody “healed”. Or faith somebody “healed” or renounced the reality of the situation “healed”. We have the privilege to run into God’s arms and HOPE. It is here, close to God where we will find the courage to live, whether God answer with a miracle or without.
God rarely make sense to me, but I experience His love often. I do not understand when, why and how God heals, but I love Him. I’m not afraid of dying, I am just afraid that those I love would die.
Some time’s I long to be with God and then I read what Paul wrote to the Philippians in Philippians 1

21 For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. 22 If I am to go on living in the body, this will mean fruitful labor for me. Yet what shall I choose? I do not know! 23 I am torn between the two: I desire to depart and be with Christ, which is better by far; 24 but it is more necessary for you that I remain in the body.

I once had a privilege to pick up a old man walking on the road from Johannesburg to Randfontein. He told me he was 78 and that he was walking the 60km to go and visit his mother. On the question of her age he responded by saying that they do not really know. She does not have papers and was born at a time when things like that did not matter. But they believe that se must be near or over a hundred years old. Then he said “She longs to go to God, but He is very busy and did not have time to come and fetch her yet”
My Grandmother a woman of 86, also longs to be with her maker. Her whole life consist of talking to God and about God. (And I must confess talking about me). It is very difficult for her to move around and she spend almost all her time in her small room, praying that God will come and take her home. Yet she lives to see another day while another young mothers who loves God, dies. We cannot choose our time, neither the way. We are not masters of our fate, we have faith in our Master. What we can choose is to live today close to God and use each moment to love those close to you. There will come a time when each one of us will die, that is un-avoidable normal.

A true story:

We know the pain of ICU. You sat with us for three days. Three of the longest days of my life. Seeing my child dying slowly. The people storming in, claiming God's healing, telling us that if we belief God would heal our precious child. That it is not God's will that our child would die, but the work of Satan. People who told us to rejoice because God said to them that our child would be healed.
Well, he died on the 28th of February 2008 after three days of hell. Not only did we experienced the pain of the event, but my wife has never again set foot in a church after that experience. She is angry with God, she believed everything that was said to her. She believed that he would be healed. She believed that the Christians who spoke so earnestly and with so much conviction was so spiritual and she acted as if our son would not die. God would surely not allow this to happen.
Paul in these times you helped me to keep my sanity, to hope, but more to see a loving God. A God that is real, a God that is with us in our pain.
On the 28th of February I did not only loose my son, I also lost my wife. She has lost her faith, her God and her reason to life.
When I think back to those tree days of hell. I wish I had chased away all those people who came with their easy answers. Those Spiritual Christians who stole my wife's faith. I AM ANGRY!
I know today that they could not handle the pain, that their fear for death was so big that they had to invent this god.
Today I must confess that the pain and the longing is still there, but I worship a holy God who is with me in my pain.
Paul thanks for your blog. This is my reality check. I will forward this article to as many people possible. I was there, this make sens. Pleas pray for my wife,
A broken father, a broken husband.





I do believe in the resurrection of Jesus Christ – What do you believe?


Resurrection: Rob Bell from The Work of Rob Bell on Vimeo.
What would my faith be without a resurrected Jesus? Empty void without hope. But now I believe, no I know that Jesus Christ rose from the dead and sits at the right hand of God the Father. I have a personal relationship with this Jesus. Today I made a feast for my family, my Wife and three kids, my Mom, my sister and her daughter. We sat around the table breaking bread and drinking grape juice celebrating a life of second chances.

Last night I and my one son started working at 24:00 on today’s meal. We had pork leg. Green beans (Boontjies net soos my ouma dit gemaak het), gem squash, cauliflower, rice, Soet pattats and